USA, the greatest place in the world! That would be how most
of my American friends would describe their home country if asked which country
they like best. However, if I address this question to an international student
the answer most likely will be very different. We live in a world of
perception. The way I perceive my world, is not necessarily how you perceive
yours, and vice-versa. We encounter differences in cultures, personalities,
norms, values, etc. every day. It is our choice to ignore, inherit, understand,
or even engage, nobody will force an individual to do so. Nevertheless, it is
my perspective that keeping open-mindedness is essential to progress with your
own self’s.
Let me start to explain this to you. The first time I have
visited the States was when I was barely 17 years old. My parents, on short
notice (3 months), decided to put me in a plane and send me off. Most likely
their intent was to get rid of me for a while. I did consent, but to be honest
I was just excited to take a year off school. I had to redo the year I spent in
the US high school in Germany due to grade requirements. This was my first time
leaving my parents for a longer period of time, into a new country I have only
heard about in the media. I was more than excited. I was stoked! Before
arriving at our host families we stopped by in NY, and I could not believe my
eyes! I thought to myself, please do not leave me by myself, I will be lost and
probably end up with the bums under some bridge for a couple nights! To verify,
I managed to not get lost… This was my first impression of the United States.
After NY, I went to my host family, visited Puyallup High
School for a year, and went back home to finish my high school education. I
came back to the US almost every summer to visit the host family I stayed with.
I loved and I still love the US. This fact, ultimately, led me to save up money
after my high school graduation in Germany to go to college in the States,
where school is obviously expensive compared to free in Germany. Yeah, I know,
do not even bother asking! It did work out. I went to Pierce Community College
in Puyallup to fulfill my gen. Ed.’s and afterwards transferred to PLU.
One thing, that no school never was able to teach me, is to
engage in diversity. Nevertheless, being a German in America is definitely
considered in functioning as a minority compared to other cultures that
resemble a much greater part of the American culture than Germany. “Hey German,
you must love Bier right!”, “Yannik, where are your Lederhosen?!” (They are
only worn in the south, I am from the north), or another classic “How are you
today Sauerkraut!”. I think you can see where I am going with this.
Stereotyping is typical for successfully demonstrating that you do not know
much about the culture at all. However, we all still do it. I came to realize
that we are all different, but also alike. It became a priority in my life to
meet as much people as I possibly can to find out as much as I can about their
cultures. I strive for understanding. Stereotypes do exist for a reason.
However, finding this reason often means analyzing the problem to its core. I
thought, that this is only possible by aligning me directly into the cultures
as closely as possible.
There are certain character traits, which are vitally
important to fulfill my commitment. I knew I had to be outgoing, which I am in
nature. Moreover, I have to work on my mindset. I radically tried to get rid of
all stereotypes that have been set for a long time and start over. It was not
easy. More so, I would not claim that I was fully successful, because I can
still find myself stereotyping one or the other time. Nevertheless, I aim to maximize
my open mindedness as much as possible. I have learned that this way you can
put your own judgments, based on mostly invalid information, aside and create a
new sense for people and cultures. PLU offers you a great opportunity to meet
people from all around the globe. Everybody is friendly, and, nobody will bite
you! I encourage you all to put yourself out there and learn more about
different cultures and people. You will not regret it. I hope I was able to
give you a glance into my life. I wish you all the best, and feel free to
contact me with any questions!
Best,
Yannik
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